Frequent discussions on this board and others are concerned with the issues surrounding the provision of benefits to children of indigent and working poor families. Our current system allows, for those who qualify, to receive benefits in order to provide for their children who are under the age of 18 years. This includes Food Stamps, healthcare, daycare, school lunches, cash stipends and school choice vouchers; just to mention a few. Providing benefits falls directly on the shoulders of the taxpayer; and, the social services entitlement programs takes a big chunk of both the state and federal budgets.
Whether politically conservative or liberal, there is a strong societal value and commitment to the welfare and wellbeing of the nation’s children. So important is this value, that it has become the basis for a large number of policies, at all levels of government, to assure the future of our nation. Most developed nations share this value and commitment, some more and some less, but all understand the value to the future.
I could go into a long discussion how this value and commitment evolved out of our basic survival needs, but that is not really the focus of this piece. What is important is that society has placed a standard of legislated expectations on the members of society with regards to children and it, the government, is willing to implement and support those expectations, even with force if necessary.
The status of children and how we perceive them has changed over time and governmental policy reflects those changes. It wasn’t too long ago, maybe a little over a century, that children were looked upon as primarily economic production units to help sustain the welfare and health of the family. In many developing societies they are still viewed in this manner. A good example of this is the American family farm of a century ago where large families were desired to provide labor to work the farm.
In addition to their economic benefit; society mostly viewed children as chattel, the property of their parents, primarily the father. Under this system, it was not uncommon for children to be abused (by today’s standards), neglected, indentured or worse. Children had no rights under the law and parents were able to do just about anything in regards to their offspring without interference from the law or society. However, toward the end of the 19th century this view of children began to change.
As a side note: I find it interesting that the ASPCA was created and protected animals long before any legislation was passed for the protection of children.
Although the murder of children has always been pretty well prohibited, little else was regulated, including physical and emotional discipline. However, beginning late in the 19th century more and more parental rights were modified to meet the changing views that society was adopting concerning the welfare of children and the needs of society. This is especially evident in times of economic distress; children were always the first to be negatively affected with changes in the economy and this remains the case even today. Prior to the change of view of children; children were used in the woolen and cotton mills of New England, the coal mines of Appalachia, and any other area where unskilled labor was required that didn’t require brute strength or size.
As the late 19th century Progressive Movement gained momentum, the plight of children soon became the centerpiece of national attention. Initially, it was focused on child labor and universal education; but as the 20th century unfolded more and more attention was given to the nature and role of children. The progressive legislation of the 1930s finally coalesced into our current system and view of child welfare.
There had been, beginning in Elizabethan England, the debate over the “deserving poor” verses the “undeserving poor." By the “Great Depression” it was generally recognized that the deserving poor was largely limited to widows and orphans. With the passage of the Social Security Act of 1935 making widows and orphans eligible for government provided benefits; alleviated the plight of widows and orphans. However, children in poverty due to other reasons, continued to be an issue of social concern.
Efforts to solve the problem of children in poverty became focused on providing not for the family directly, but for the children themselves. Legislation through the 1970s was designed and implemented to primarily break the poverty cycle and move impoverished children into the working and middle classes, while maintaining the nuclear family unit. The assumption was that it was to the benefit of children to remain in their family of birth rather than ship them off to industrial type warehouses, called orphanages or work farms and work houses. The AFDC system worked on the premise that the child was best served by a stay at home mother until the child was enrolled into a full day school. The system adopted the premise; that the family was eligible for full AFDC benefits until the child achieved the age of six years.
A contrary social economic movement was occurring parallel to the child welfare movement. The entry of women into the full time workforce began to change the assumptions concerning the socially accepted premise of the value of stay at home moms and its impact on children.
During the Carter administration a change was made to the AFDC eligibility requirements. The policy changed the makeup of the family in poverty by requiring any adult, primarily the father, in the household, other than the mother or other primary care parent, to be gainfully employed. By the father working, often for minimum wage or in an unstable employment market, the loss of benefits could not be made up by the employment alone. If the employment able unemployed adult remained in the household, the family would lose all government benefit, thus putting all the children in the family at risk. The solution was for the male parent to move out of the household. The change in policy contributed to an adaptation by the family, whereas the family in poverty became a single parent, woman headed matriarchal unit. Hence, giving birth to the stereotypical “welfare queen”.
The conservatives of the Reagan era began using the plight of the AFDC families and perceived notion that there weren’t any legitimate reasons for women with children to be on assistance. This sentiment was further reinforced by the attitudes concerning women working outside of the home instead of being a stay at home parent. By the mid 1990s, AFDC as we know it had ended and work and term requirements were added to the welfare recipients. As we approach two decades since the change, it has yet proven to result in the goals desired. If anything it has proven to create many more problems than it solved. But, what does this have to do with children?
As the Progressive Movement forged into the 20th century, society took more and more control of how children were raised and the expectations of parental roles. Much of the rationale for the changes were based on discovers found in the emerging social sciences of psychology and sociology. Another important influence was education and learning theory. Based on the new information, government bodies began passing new legislation putting limits on parental control and demands of proper care and treatment of children. This was supported by both conservatives and liberals with the common denominator being the welfare of children, which would lead to a better society.
Looking at the relationship between society, parents and children; it doesn’t take long to discover that parents have been reassigned to the role as caretakers of their children, with society becoming the ultimate super parent. It is no more apparent than children of divorce, children found to have been abused or neglected, and those receiving government benefits. The parents of these children have been mandated by the government in how they care for their children. Quite simply, children have become direct wards of the state, with society as the direct guarantor of children’s welfare. As long as a parent is able to provide for their children and meet societal expectations, the government pretty much stays out of the relationship between parent and child. However, step outside of the societal expectations, a parent can run the risk of losing parental rights as well as their children.
Now we have come to the dilemma of how do you take care of children without taking care of the caregiver too. This is where there arises a major difference between the political right and the political left. The political right wants to support the children without supporting the caregiver. The political left maintains that you can’t provide for the children without also providing for the caretaker/parent. So far the political right hasn’t come up with anything to satisfy both demands.
If we as a society wish to assure the quality of life of our children and maintain resources to achieve proper growth and development, then we must accept the fact that we will have to support the caretaker also.
Alfred
3:40 pm on Monday, August 13, 2012
You seem to have a lot of time on your hands Lyle, why not try scrubbing kitchen floor or volunteering .
Luke
4:20 pm on Monday, August 13, 2012
Lyle,
I think the problem can only be partially addressed. As you know, speaking as someone that has worked with the poor, I believe that a portion of our poor suffer from learned helplessness, and I believe that it is inhumane to allow them to continue to live for free off of government support. The government needs to assign them to social workers and give them a few hard choices. The Progressive Movement needs to face up to its perverse satisfaction it gets from perpetuating its relationship to this class of poor.
That said, the Independent in me is comes out.... I believe that preschool and kindergarten are our opportunity to change the lives of the poor for the next generation. Socialization is the problem.
By saying this, I am breaking ranks with the left by saying that there is a class of people with inferior (yes, I said "INFERIOR"!!) social skills. Also, by saying this, I am breaking ranks with the right by saying that children should be cared for with a huge expansion in a particular government program, which will care for the children during a portion of the day, enabling them to experience an environment that will change their lives forever, provide them with physical care, and provide both the ambitious poor and the hopelessly lazy poor one more chance to improve their lives while they are relieved of responsibility for a portion of the day.
In support of my position:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3041102/
Luke
5:43 pm on Monday, August 13, 2012
Related study:
http://jenni.uchicago.edu/papers/Heckman_Moon_etal_2010_NBER_wp16180.pdf
NPR short podcast. Worth listening to:
http://www.npr.org/blogs/money/2011/08/12/139583385/preschool-the-best-job-training-program
Randy1949
10:29 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
For once I agree with you, Luke. Pre-schoolers are probably benefited by being removed from their intellectually impoverished homes for a short period every day and having their minds stimulated.
However, structured education too soon is bad for a mind that might develop into true genius if left to its own devices. School tends to shove thinking into boxes. This idea of trying to teach children to read at age three is daft.
Luke
4:45 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Randy
Always nice to agree. :)
red
4:47 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
I can see the positive intent, but what about studies showing that Headstart has had no effect? Is any program to take kids from poor environment different from Headstart?
Perhaps we need to have headstart for kids and parents together.
Luke
4:53 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@red,
I don't know about the studies you are talking about, nor what variables they focused on. I can conclude that, given the study I posted, there ARE learning environments that DO improve the abilities of people for the rest of their lives. I can't concluded that EVERY learning environment improves the same abilities.
I think it's safe to say that everything can be optimized.
Steve ®
8:51 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
As a producer and tax payer I own them. If we can not cut these out of control entitlements of welfare, at least lets try and profit on our "investment". It's only fair, I pay for your everything, you owe me in return so I can pay for another new crack baby next week.
Please send them over to my shop so we can get labor out of their tiny little hands. I have plenty of small parts that need assembling. If their parents are not too cracked out they can come as well, I hate cleaning my bathrooms.
If they do not show then they both starve or are sent to a work jail. Not jail like we have now either. Jail that produces and makes a profit off of their labor, whether that be manual or mental we have a job for ever slacker, crack head, and lazy welfare recipient.
Lyle Ruble
9:05 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Steve...You're such a mensch. I think you were born two centuries too late. You are a stereotypical example of a Charles Dickens character, you chose which one.
Steve ®
9:09 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
I don't read books, I live in the real world
Lyle Ruble
11:45 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Steve....It's pretty obvious that you don't read books.
Steve ®
12:20 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
I just told you that I don't read books, now we're just getting repetitive.
Greg
12:54 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Put it in a book, then Lyle will get it. Some people would not know that rain is wet, unless they read it in a book.
Luke
3:33 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Steve.
That's the great thing about the program I proposed. It actually saves money, as one of the studies I posted explains.
The result is that we actually help children and adults, whereas the "Progressives" enslave them, reduce their IQ scores, and expand their voter base. How inhumane can you get!?
morninmist
3:34 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Steve and Greg
Good show. You live up to the wisdom that Tea Party folks are low information folks. Good job.
Greg
4:33 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Tweet this.
Steve ®
10:07 am on Thursday, August 16, 2012
Typical elitist liberals, thinking your "higher" education and reading somehow makes you a better person then the rest. While you look down at us we are out producing and providing a living wage to American workers. You can read what others have lived or you can create the next chapter yourself and have someone write about it later.
Lyle Ruble
10:34 am on Thursday, August 16, 2012
@Steve....I don't quite understand your obsession with those of education. Having a higher education and reading doesn't eliminate one from being a producer. It is all a matter of awareness. The more one studies, the more that is revealed, giving a greater understanding of the world and our environment in which we live. However, knowledge and understanding are not sufficient, it must be applied.
Randy1949
10:32 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
We parents need to 'own' our children as much as possible for as long as possible. Out side influences will come all too soon. Economic trends are forcing more and more of us to turn our children over to someone else during their most formative years -- early childhood, and we are seeing the result in poorer performance in school.
Johnny Blade
10:40 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Lyle .. What happened before YOUR SLAVE MASTER the government took over .. WOW we had private charities to help .. which didn't come to my door with guns to force me to pay for your MIGHTY government ... "Although the murder of children has always been pretty well prohibited" really are you daft .. we murder children daily .. were are thier rights
St. Swithin
11:45 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Lyle,
Being married to a K~5 teacher, I have heard many stories of neglected children and community/government attempts to help them. The examples are often heart-breaking and always raise a desire to intervene in some way.
I think the first step is to acknowledge that parents own the child. The family has been the core social structure for all of recorded history. With that said, community/government has to set a standard for child-raising and take action to support that standard. We do not allow people to pollute, steal or murder. Nor should we let them bring children into the world and then neglect and abuse them. Train the parents. Help the parents. And if needed, punish the parents. Of course, the devil is in the details. Should we give the parents welfare to help the children? Why should they be rewarded for bringing a child into the world they can't support? If someone proves to be a bad parent (drugs, abuse, just an asshole, etc.) should we sterilize them? At what point is a child taken away from the parents? These rules change over time and culture. What are the optimum guidelines? I wish I knew.
Alfred
11:48 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Lyle and his family are statists and profitters of dysfunctional families. It is obvious who he thinks owns children, it is the state. Just follow the money.
Mike Knight
11:55 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Before the scourge of modern government parents were responsible for their children until they became adults. This has been the way since the dawn of humankind.
Greg
12:37 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Personal responsibility??? It's no longer required.
Maybe it was part of natural selection. In the past, if you were not able to take care of your offspring you turned them over to family or friends. In turn they would provide the required mentoring to produce productive adults.
Lyle Ruble
1:13 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Greg...The law requires the parent to take personal responsibility. If the parent can't or won't take such responsibility, then the dependent child is placed with an available responsible family member. If a family member is not available, then the child is placed into foster care. The child will remain in foster care while the caretaker is reeducated or if that is not possible the parent's rights will be terminated and the child made available for adoption.
Now if you want to pursue natural selection, we shouldn't interfere in any case and allow those without resources to face the perils of the environment. Of course, then we couldn't consider ourselves to be moral or civilized.
Luke
3:47 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Lyle,
For the sake of argument, you never have defined either "moral" or "civilized."
Also, from a merely naturalistic/materialistic perspective, your use of the terminology is merely arbitrary.
Lyle Ruble
11:58 am on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Johnny Blade...If charities worked, then the government wouldn't have never needed to step in. You know the Idaho Panhandle is calling you.
If you are referring to pregnancy termination, sorry they are not children and have no rights.
Greg
12:50 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
But should they have rights? Being born drug dependent or mentally/physically handicapped due to neglect during pregnancy does not seem fair. Tax payers should pay more, over time, for these children because liberals do not want to give them rights before they are born? We could provide for a lot of healthy kids for what it costs to take care of just one crack-baby.
Lyle Ruble
1:17 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Greg....A drug dependent baby is not a lost cause. Once they have been detoxified they can live a normal life and develop without obstructive challenges.
Randy1949
1:21 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
I think children do have a right not to be subjected to a toxic gestational environment that will have a lifelong effect on their health and intelligence. I also believe that they have the right to a decent situation if they are carried to term.
I have two adopted grandchildren who were subjected to abuse and neglect both before and after birth. As my son once said, some people should be sterilized with a rusty can opener.
Of course, responsibility to a child does hinge on the right to not become pregnant and not stay pregnant if the woman wishes.
Randy1949
1:43 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Greg -- A child has a right not to be born with handicaps that could have been prevented. But what are you going to do -- lock up a woman for eight months? And where do you draw the line? She had a half a glass of wine with dinner once a week -- lock her up! She walked into a room where they were doing painting and sniffed some turpentine fumes -- lock her up! She wants to hike the Appalachian Trail -- lock her up!
This is something men don't tend to think about.
Greg
3:44 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
I would start by saying the unborn have some rights. Next I would prosecute for obvious neglect, we can do it for a child that is born, I think it could be done for the unborn. Attitude would need change. Currently many babies are treated as throw aways. In Milwaukee you can kill your baby by smothering it with your lazy drunken body, then the Mayor and his lackeys stand there, scratching their heads, and have a press conference. We should prosecute these actions for the same reason we prosecute other bad acts.
Greg
3:59 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
So Lyle, it's just OK to have a drug dependent baby?
Here is some info about treatment of babies whose mothers misused prescription pain medications, the crack-babies are even worse.
" If infants do not undergo a methadone treatment program, they may require to long-term care for the resultant developmental and behavioral disorders; thus, placing an added financial burden on state resources. Even infants who undergo a withdrawal program may have long-term difficulties in critical regulatory areas of sleep, feeding, and autonomic function (the portion of the nervous system that regulates involuntary action in areas such as the intestines, heart, and glands)."
Johnny Blade
12:31 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@ Lyle .. Really so who said charities didn't work .. BIG freakin government slave masters like yourself .. I can't stand weasel POS's like yourself .. you won't come to my door and steal from me to pay "for some neglected child" would you .. no!! coward Phucks like you send the government with guns
Yeah pregnancy termination .. does it make you fell better saying that instead of baby killer .. you are really a piece of work
Satori
12:44 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
wow! how embarrassing.
morninmist
3:36 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Johnny Blade
You demonstrated that Tea Party folks are mean spirited and stupid.
Johnny Blade
3:49 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Yeah i am mean spirited because i want to be free .. It must piss you off when you can't get control of someon huh???
Greg
4:03 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
"You demonstrated that Tea Party folks are mean spirited and stupid."
Bren, this comment proves you are no better. As you said to me not long ago "I have lost all respect for you".
Bren
4:19 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Greg, I certainly didn't write that.
Greg
4:29 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Bren, Please forgive me. I can get confused at times, but to confuse the two of you is bad news. I retract all of my comment that pertains to you.
Bren
4:36 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Greg I figured that was the case and agree that the layout here can be challenging. All good! : )
I appreciate your excellent posts about babies born with deficits/disabilities due to prenatal neglect and abuse. People who abuse their bodies lack hope and self-respect. This is also a serious issue that must be addressed in promoting good prenatal and post-birth care.
Greg
4:44 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Thank you Bren. I am not hard core on the abortion issue, but I do strongly feel that if you are going to bring a child into this world, they deserve the best chance they can have.
Bren
4:53 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Greg, I 100% agree. Every kid deserves a fighting chance for a successful life!
Johnny Blade
12:34 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Lyle ... when do children have rights .. when you and the Eugenic slave masters decide??
Lyle Ruble
1:05 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Johnny Blade...From birth, children have the right to be protected and nurtured. Children have limited rights until reaching majority and between 18 and 21 they have full rights except for the purchase of alcohol. At age 21 they have unrestricted rights. Is that a good enough answer for you?
Alfred
1:09 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Makes you wonder how many abortions Mr Humanist here has paid for..or better yet, made the girl pay for.
Johnny Blade
1:14 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Lyle .. More BS .. so if i murder a pregnant woman i only killed one person .. why at birth, children can be born at 5months but if still in the womb it is open season .. Your phuckin illogic is amazing .. you want gun control but favor killing millions on your "from Birth" LOOPHOLE
Lyle Ruble
1:19 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Alfred...I will admit that I have donated money specifically to fund pregnancy termination. So what is your point of your statement?
Lyle Ruble
2:01 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Johnny Blade....Many states have laws that if a fetus is still in utero and would be viable if having been born early, then the perpetrator is charged with two counts of homicide.
We have a basic disagreement. The termination is not killing millions. For example: As many as 1:6 pregnancies result in spontaneous miscarriage. If you look at the statistics, the rate of abortions have steadily declined since the mid-1990s. Abortions in the U.S. number 1.5 million per year (2011) and I think that is a fairly stable number. The issue with me is not abortion per se, but a woman's right of choice. No one is insisting a woman should have an abortion and such a decision should be by free choice. I also support women to receive prenatal and postnatal care if they should carry the baby to term. I also support adoption as an option to abortion. You have to remember of those 1.5 million abortions; if born, a majority would probably wind up on government assistance. You're already complaining about all the people on government assistance, in reality if you support right to life, then you should also support government assistance.
Bren
2:14 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
We have people who want to protect unborn fetuses in despite of the fact that no tests exist to identify/measure fetal cognition. Edgar Cayce claimed to regress clients to fetal memories, that is fine. What's not fine to me is how the deadbeat dad issue does not receive the same amount of indignation and focus. Of the women I have known who have had abortions, all but one were due to trauma from lack of partner support (emotional and/or financial).(The "one" was due to mental instability).
Parents are the primary influencers in children's lives. Socio-emo-economic status has a tremendous impact on the child beginning before K5 kindergarten (I've shared these stats before: best prepared kids have 1,000 hours reading time with parents and least prepared have 25 going into K5). The gap begins in K5 and becomes an insurmountable chasm going forward. Why such a difference? Parental literacy/English language deficits, food/economic insecurity, work schedules; there are many reasons.
If healthy live births are the priority here then we need to make it the priority. That means ensuring pre-natal care, healthy/safe living environment, parental readiness/love/support. Cutting programs that WIC, food stamps, etc. are a disaster.
Luke
3:29 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Bren
On the contrary, almost every type of scan that can be performed on a born child can be performed on an unborn child. The problem is getting the child to hold still, but the scans are and have been done on a regular basis. Prenatal learning (mostly auditory) is an actual field of study.
But putting all that aside, are you saying that ignorance is a defense? Are you saying that passing through a birth canal suddenly "turns on" a critical part of the brain?
As far as the pro-choice argument goes, the delineation between when to kill and when not to kill is purely arbitrary. Why not, as Russ Feingold once argued (but had removed from the record), allow mothers to kill their children after they are delivered?
Lyle Ruble
3:42 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Luke....There are philosophical arguments that refer to agency and support infanticide up to the first thirty days after birth. From a philosophical perspective it is defensible. Only since the advent of extraordinary medical intervention has it been possible to support many premature births, sustainment after birth for infants born with substantial birth defects, etc. I don't think I would your Russ Feingold's statement as an argument to Bren. In addition, whether you count viability at conception, at birth or 30 days after birth; it is a arbitrary societal decision. You can't depend on religious tradition to settle the question either since there isn't any consistent view.
Bren
4:17 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Luke, technology may be getting closer but it's not there yet. I am not suggesting that the brain switches on at birth but science cannot identify when/why/how fetal cognition occurs. Response to physical stimuli is quantitative.
Concerning the arbitrary age of when to kill, I ask this: why the insistence on bringing an unwanted child into the world when there are few/no provisions to ensure that the child becomes a cherished member of society? A former colleague of mine who served as an abortion clinic escort told me the best throwback/shutup line to the ugly screaming mob was "Fine, write me a check for $100 grand to raise this kid." I say again, if deadbeat dads/parents were pursued and vilified with the same level of zeal and fervor as we go after the prospective mothers we might see some positive action.
If I had my way, the social stigma of unwed pregnancy would go away (it still exists and still fuels abortions). Birth control and sex ed (well-rounded curriculum) would not go away. And parents would support their biological children. Punishments for under-the-table employers would be expensive. And for those who refuse to work the support would be deducted from their future SS and Medicare benefits. If the state "owns" children in these situations, what can we do to make sure that they know they are deeply valued through quality care and good role models? Self-respect leads to good decision-making.
Luke
4:17 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Lyle,
My argument works with Bren, considering that she was discussing unborn babies. Also, your appeal to "philosophical arguments" opens a big door, given that there are philosophical arguments for killing anyone.
Finally, you are wrong that people can't appeal to religious tradition. Your point that there is no consensus does not prohibit any individual from utilizing their tradition or encouraging others to agree. In fact, there is no philosophical consensus either
Luke
4:24 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Bren,
This issue is not if or when YOU can decide when infant cognition occurs. You are not the barrier, given that we already know that it DOES occur.
As for your argument about unwanted babies, I suppose you can demonstrate that no one would want them? My sister had to wait 17 months to adopt her daughter. She wanted a Hmong child, but she was willing to take any child. People go overseas to get their children for good reason.
Bren
4:29 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
According to this article from the International Business Times, the U.S. has the second-highest rate of child poverty (23%) in the developed world (Romania is worst).
http://www.ibtimes.com/articles/346943/20120530/childhood-poverty-u-s-second-highest-rate.htm
That is unacceptable. I'll maintain my stance that it is impossible to isolate and attack abortion rights (one result of a multi-tiered social issue). It makes no sense to bring children into a world of misery and poverty. Don't add to the misery and poverty, attack the causal factors and change the "results!"
Luke
4:39 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Bren,
Your leap in logic is obvious. Poverty does not equal unhappiness. For 99.9% of human history, mankind could only dream of living like the poor of our country. 200 years ago a King lived in a stone castle and feared for his life day and night. He had plenty to eat, but he pooped in a copper pot and ate food that was prepared by unclean people in unclean environments. He owned a couple of books and read by candle light.
Now, go to impoverished homes around the country (come with me if you like) and see how many unhappy kids there are. Ask them if they want to die. The truth is, if they are loved and fed (and the government will see that they are) they are relatively happy.
Bren
4:47 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Luke, fetal cognition is a point of contention; the need for excellent prenatal care is not. I use the term "unwanted" in reference to that % of abortions made because the mother cannot care for/afford the child and/or fears social stigma. Congratulations to your sister on her successful adoption! My point as always is that children need to be cherished.
Children who are loved and nurtured generally grow up to be loving and nurturing in turn. Promoting these types of outcomes is going to reduce the number of fear/economic-based abortions and address other social problems.
Bren
4:52 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Luke, I believe you might be discounting the differences in the cost of living. In some parts of the world $24,000k for a family of four is an excellent income. Here it is at/near the federal poverty line.
Where there is hope there is happiness. We need more hope and not just among those of low income.
Luke
5:00 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Bren,
Yes, "unwanted" can only mean the the mother does not want the baby, given that there are others who probably DO want the baby.
Take your example of the person asking people for 100k for the baby. Few can offer that, so no one will step up to write the check. But offer them the child, and they will most certainly take the child, and will spend that much over the lifetime of the child. That's why your argument is fallacious.
Finally, poverty is relative.
Bren
5:30 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Luke, the takeaway from my colleague about the shut-up line was that there were no solutions offered to the women being escorted, only name calling and verbal abuse. For a woman fearing social stigma verbal abuse is one of, if not the most compelling argument for getting the abortion (whore, baby-killer, murderer, etc.). When faced with a potential solution, i.e. take responsibility for caring for this child, the modern-day stone throwers had no response or counter-solutions to offer.
Is poverty "relative?" One of the worst aspects of child poverty is the lifelong impact (developmental, emotional, etc.) that living in food/economic insecurity can have.
Luke
5:51 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Bren,
Interesting story, with lots of drama involving faceless individuals, and an ironic twist at the end.
But there are families that will take the baby. You know it an I know it.
Lyle Ruble
5:53 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Luke...My point is that we can argue philosophical precepts all day long and still not gain a consensus, including nihilistic arguments. The same holds true for religion, truth is subjective to belief. What we seek is a consensus of values. If we value life and the survival of the species, then we do need to find consensus as to what we are prepared to do, as a society, to achieve the stated societal values. If we agree to protect children and give them what they need to become a productive citizens, then it shouldn't be a matter of money to afford such care.
Also, adoption is a viable option, but we must assure that the placement is not placing the child/children in as much danger or more than they just left. I know some who use adoption for their financial benefit, especially adoption of children of parents who have had their parental rights terminated. Also, there are far too many people providing foster care just for the money.
Luke
5:54 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Bren,
Yes, poverty is relative. And yes, everything impacts everything. So?
Lyle Ruble
6:00 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Luke....I agree that just because someone is in poverty that it doesn't necessarily mean unhappiness. However, review Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and reaffirm what is basic survival needs.
Luke
7:54 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Lyle,
Regarding your last post, you say:
"" If we value life.., then it shouldn't be a matter of money to afford such care."":
My purpose in writing in this thread has been to show that the Progressive Movement is not in any way the morally superior movement that you made it out to be. It has enslaved many people to the government and made many of them less of what they would have been otherwise.
In addition, the Movement does not value life; rather, it values a quality of life, because that is what it promises its voters. The fact that you admit that there is an argument for killing children months after they are born makes my point. The conservative movement values the life of the individual first, whereas the Progressive Movement values the quality of life for the species first, and caters to the less valuable life of the individual so as to expand the voter base.
St. Swithin
2:11 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Lyle,
Why are you feeding the trolls? Johnny Blade and Alfred are good examples of where someone should have intervened with their parents. Now you have allowed them to drag you into an abortion debate.
Lyle Ruble
2:39 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@St. Swithin...I know. They don't seem to understand that if you're going to support children, it has to be in spite of irresponsible parents and guardians. Whenever, there isn't anyone to take responsibility for the care and welfare of a child, then it's our duty to step in.
Luke
4:30 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Lyle,
Yet every word you used in your post above is relative to a value system: "care," "welfare," "responsibility."
Johnny Blade
3:47 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@ Lyle .. you crack me up .. now with ultrasound technology these "people" decide oh it is girl .. i want a boy .. abort abort .. I hope you can live with that
Alfred
4:01 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Exactly Mr Blade....Mr Ruble and his kind are responsible for the mass slaughter of over 30 million unborn children via the abortion holocaust. I will certainly dance on the grave of every baby boomer once they all assume room temperature.
Lyle Ruble
5:55 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Alfred...If you're going to throw numbers out, then get it right. Since Roe v Wade there has been over 53 million pregnancies terminated.
Randy1949
7:18 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
But Alfred, some Baby Boomers are staunchly anti-abortion. You want to dance on their graves too?
Lyle Ruble
7:25 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Randy1949...I would like to see Alfred dancing on the graves since he doesn't dance.
Mz.Wonderful
7:31 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
This is INSANITY! Study the MagnaCarta. Look up Eugenics. This IS ALL PLANNED BY YOUR GOVERNMENT YOU BLINDLY FOLLOW. THEY ARE PRESENTLY STRIPPING MORE & MORE GOOD~GREAT PARENTS OF THEIR CHILDREN. THEIR FLESH & BLOOD, REGARDLESS OF HAVING SO CALLED HELP OR NONE. ONLY 11 Senators.stand up for PARENTS RIGHTS TO RAISE THEIR OFFSPRING. YES, they dismantle FAMILIES for PROFIT. Per THEIR, cps, stats,FOR EVERY ONE CHILD~27workers make THEIR LIVING OFF THIS CHILD! Paid bonuses. 1st time cash payments in THEIR pockets. $4~6K for a regular child. $10~12K for a Special needs child...per THEIR records. 1 on 5 ARE ILLEGALLY REMOVED FROM GOOD HOMES WITH NO PROOF OF WRONG DOING. THEN, that FAMILY Goes into DEBT in the vicious den they have veen dragged into. Once AGAIN, THEIR STATS, PLUS MANY,MANY FAMILIES TO TESTIFY
ItTO THIS CORRUPTION. READthe Magna Carta, so Many other writings of Our ForeFathers. It's ALL CONTROL & EUGENIC.S
Lyle Ruble
9:06 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Team Christine....You've gone completely off the rails. Dismantling families for profit is an insane statement. Milwaukee County receives over 50,000 referrals a year. Of that number only 10K require further investigation and 2,500 children are detained for abuse or neglect. When a child is detained, they always attempt to place the child with a responsible family member first. If none are available, then the child is placed with a qualified foster care family. The mission no matter the circumstance is to make every effort to reunite the child with the family.
By ranting about child welfare professionals you are doing a great disservice to people that end up having to do a dangerous thankless job.
I don't get what the Magna Carta or Eugenics have anything to do with the issue in question. You are not very clear in the connections.
Mz.Wonderful
7:42 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
By the gov. There's Alot of talk of 'welfare'. Start with the workers, judges & more getting Rich off your flesh & blood. I know what comments will ensue, but, again, I can give you Doc, Attns., teachers & well respected individuals targeted & lost their children with NOTHING MORE THAN FALSE STATEMENTS, GOSSIP, HEARSAY & other dispicable behaviors driven for whatever gain. TIME TO TAKE OUR CHILDREN BACK. They are presently trying to take away parental rights of those with disabled children. REALLY?!!!! & NOT ALL KIDS ARE FROM DRUG GIES, DRUNKS TNAT LAND HERE. People that never drank/other can find this in their future. & for tbat matter, MOST AMERICANS ARE ONE CHECK AWAY FROM BEING HOMELESS.BUSTING THEIR BUTTS...FOR WHAT? Crooked banks/gov? 18.5 HOMELESS, 38.5 HOMES EMPTY. Gov HELPS?!!! Hahaha. Welfare, that's the fat cats living off YOU. & you don't matter in the longrun to them, their Vaca Paid by You or anything else that plights YOU.
Greg
9:33 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
By ranting about the homeless you are doing a great disservice to people that end up having to do a dangerous thankless job.
Mz.Wonderful
7:50 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Google AFRA, lawlessamerica with Bill Windsor...you WILL be sickened & HOPEFULLY Awake to the evils. Google Holly Greig, downs girl passed ariund by Judges, other officials. EDUCATE YOURSELVES. OUR CHILDREN ARE NOW A HUGE COMMODITY. UNDER THE GUISE TO PROTECT US. WE NEED TO BE PROTECTED FRIM OURSELVES?! Perhaps,some. NOT myself or MY FAMILY. PLEASE, GOD, LET FREEDOM & COMMON SENSE PREVAIL!!!
Lyle Ruble
9:48 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@Luke...You're are being extremely cynical in claiming that the progressive movement is only attempting to keep people dependent in order to use them to gain power. What the progressive movement is all about is creating equal opportunities for everyone, no matter SES. The War on Poverty was all about removing obstacles that were holding people back from upward social mobility. True equal opportunity is the goal.
There has to be a balance between the sovereignty of the individual and sovereignty of the community. You can't have one without the other. The individual can only flourish when there is a caring and stable community.
While we are addressing community, I am curious how your family has become so diverse, it sounds like a fascinating story.
Luke
10:23 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Lyle,
If I said that the Movement is ONLY interested in keeping people dependent, then I was wrong to do so. My position is that it IS interested in that to some degree, simply as a matter of pragmatism. I've touched on how that works, to some degree, an I will do so some more at a later time.
My family moved to Wisconsin from Missouri because all of our family is here. Also, my mom didn't want her kids to spend the last half of their childhood in a rural area, so we moved here to get more educational opportunities. My dad had struck it rich in banking and realestate and wanted to something to help the poor, which was something that he had always been active in.
When we moved to Wisconsin, my parents got involved in helping refugees from Laos. Families of refugees lived in our house from the time I was 13 until long after I went to college. Then my parents left for SE Asian to help the poor, which is where they now live..
My wife's parents were Ukrainian Germans who eventually left due to WWII and fled to Germany and then to the US. My wife learned English when she went to public school at the age of 6. My wife became my first and last girlfriend at the age of 13.
Because my brothers and sisters were around Hmong people (from Laos) around the time they grew up, my brother and both of my sisters married Hmong spouses. Some cousins met their spouses (1 hispanic, 1 Nigerian, 1 Jamaican) when at school out east. The rest of my relatives are white.
Greg
10:26 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Holy melting pot Batman.
Luke
6:30 am on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
I forgot to mention that my nephew, who is half Hmong, will be marrying a young woman who is half Puerto Rican next June.
SkinnyDude
10:03 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
We need to quit creating victims. Criminals are criminals . Child abuse is a crime . But the Resources wasted in the name of children is embarrassing. Not that the intention isnt good but the results have been awful. The cycle of good intentions has done more to destroy the family unit and stable homes than it ever did to help it .Its not always about having more resources to throw down a rat hole. The status quo sucks so lets not just feed the beast . Lets change the results by changing the incentives to promote success instead of failure.
Lyle Ruble
10:15 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
@skinnyDUDE...Change what incentives? I'm interested in your plan.
jbw
11:16 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
What incentives? I'll bite. How about the many subtle and not so subtle ways our government rewards people for remaining dependent and punishes them for success?
I lost count years ago of the number of people with cases in which their poverty is greater if they take up employment than if they remain unemployed, due to the poor design of various government programs designed to help them. That's certainly a terrible way to incentivize someone to be a productive citizen.
On the other hand, if you do manage to find a way to make a lot of money one year, our tax system practically destroys you - leaving you little to no chance of working your way up in life. Speaking from personal experience, my after-tax earnings per hour worked are much higher if I make a point of working less to avoid the high-end of government taxation. I made the mistake of burning myself out working very hard for a few years only to see my hopes of financial security dashed by overwhelming taxes. Years of study in finance have taught me there are ways around much of that taxation, but only if you are wealthy, not if you are trying to work your way up. Again, the incentive is quite strong to avoid work and effort, promoting failure instead of success.
I guess I'd have to suggest carefully revising government assistance programs to avoid perverse disincentives. And maybe adjust taxes to not hit the people in the middle quite so hard when trying to work their way up.
Randy1949
1:03 pm on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
@jbw -- it isn't so much the government rewarding dependency as it is the capitalist economic system punishing those who try to work but find that salary and benefits don't even equal their cost of living. The answer isn't to reduce benefits to make poor people's lives even more miserable.
The best way to do it was the so-called welfare reform of the 90s -- housing subsidies, food stamps, child care subsidies, BadgerCare, the earned income credit. All of those actually rewarded the person who went out and worked a job, even if it paid very little. But now, of course, these are being attacked as expensive entitlements.
You agree it's a good example for children to have a working parent, right?
SkinnyDude
11:03 pm on Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Altering incentives is not to hard to figure out. People stay on welfare cause they are acting in theyre own self interests. Maximum benefit with minimal effort. It builds on itself to become not only a way of life but an expectation of what people feel entitled too without any effort. There are many approaches to change the status quo . But it requires that the people receiving benefits doing something more than holding there hand out. Before Id get into specifics I would submit a over view from economist Thomas Sowell. He is certainly more in tune with my view of the current failed status that we continue to feed. In fact, Obama has encouraged welfare expansion. Hence , to feed failure only leads to bigger failure.
http://www.unionleader.com/article/20110525/OPINION02/705259997/
Mz.Wonderful
8:06 am on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
With all due respect, you name ONE COUNTY. Ha Ha, I'll post this link to the millions of Families destroyed. Did you investigate ANYTHING? Pull up the gov yearly stats. & Luke IS CORRECT. The gov Is creating a subservient society. Magna Carta describes the dissemination of Families through Several practices, READ IT. I'll find the exact area for you. Public schools, media, other. Written 1948, I believe. Again, let's go back to MANY WISE MEN~those Crazy Cats who developed the Constitutional Bill of Rights...once again, the RIGHT TO BE A PARENT. THE UNITED NATIONS IS, HAS BEEN CREATING A 'treaty' or Bill that will be Supreme Law of the land stripping ALL RIGHTS & DECISIONS YOU CHOOSE FOR YOUR FLESH & BLOOD. Schools, EVERY ASPECT.
Mz.Wonderful
8:10 am on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
Furthermore, another Bill that makes ALL CHOICES for Parents with, or should I call it a Disability 'Act' that makes every DICTATATION TO THEM. Apparently, they don't need to be guaranteed the same Rights as everyone else percieves they have.
Lyle Ruble
11:09 am on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
@Team Christine....I am the first one to admit that there are huge issues that need to be addressed and resolved in Child Welfare. This is not an isolated issue but encompasses all states, DC and the tribal areas. However, anecdotal testimony does not support the kind of changes you are advocating and the rants by Leonard Henderson are for self interest only.
There is a general lack of public awareness of the problems facing Child Welfare. The entire system is terribly underfunded and given back burner status by state legislators. The focus on Child Welfare should be on family preservation and that is the weakest area of the entire system. It is clearly time that if we are to protect both children and families that we must properly fund them and create a system that heals the families. From my own experience as a psychotherapist dealing with families that dysfunctional families pass on that dysfunction from one generation to another. Breaking the cycle of abuse and neglect must be focused on the family if at all possible.
joe perez
11:16 am on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
How much salary and benefits does your wife draw from the social welfare system?
Randy1949
12:55 pm on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
@joe perez -- How much salary and benefits does any public servant draw for their work? Mrs. Ruble helps kids who need help. Do you honestly have a problem with that?
Lyle Ruble
5:37 pm on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
@joe perez....How much do you think she should be paid?
SkinnyDude
12:16 pm on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
@Lyle ....(per your request)
Altering incentives is not to hard to figure out. People stay on welfare cause they are acting in theyre own self interests. Maximum benefit with minimal effort. It builds on itself to become not only a way of life but an expectation of what people feel entitled too without any effort. There are many approaches to change the status quo . But it requires that the people receiving benefits doing something more than holding there hand out. Before Id get into specifics I would submit a over view from economist Thomas Sowell. He is certainly more in tune with my view of the current failed status that we continue to feed. In fact, Obama has encouraged welfare expansion. Hence , to feed failure only leads to bigger failure.
http://www.unionleader.com/article/20110525/OPINION02/705259997/
Lyle Ruble
2:44 pm on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
@skinnyDUDE...I am familiar with Sowell and his economic philosophy which was derived while he was a government worker in the D.C. area when he was early in his career. There are a few things I agree with him about, but there is much more that I disagree. His ideas of providing incentives really don't directly relate to the care of children. Our tax policy is so upside down that for those seeking upward mobility there is a clear hole in the system. This hole begins where a family or individual no longer qualifies for benefits and ends when they begin making enough to be self sufficient without assistance. This level is called either a living wage (for an individual) or a family wage (for a family of four). Both are dependent on the local cost of living. As you well know, prevailing wages are dependent on supply and demand. The less skilled the job, the lower the wage. We currently have a problem, in as much; that lower end employment opportunities are becoming
extremely limited. As the economy has softened so has wages forcing once middle class workers accepting lower wage positions and forcing the least skilled completely out of the workforce and dependent on the safety net. It is not as you describe as the least amount of effort for the most benefit. To earn a living wage now @ minimum wage, requires working two full time jobs or 80 hours/week. The other problem is that even with an income of $14.50/hour, they still would be hard pressed to be able to afford healthcare.
Lyle Ruble
2:48 pm on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
@skinnyDUDE...(continued) This is not a problem that is going away and I don't know what kind of incentives could be crafted to solve this problem. There are just too many people chasing too few jobs with too little critical skills.
SkinnyDude
5:21 pm on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
@ Lyle ......Well one obvious thing would be to vote Obama out of office. No case can be made that he has been pro JOB.
Lyle I agree the tax code is upside down and would support a FAIR TAX over the current system .It will certainly create more revenues and if its balanced with spending cuts the nation and families will in time turn the corner. Which is better than hanging on to the bottom rung demanding while trading your dignity for food stamps and welfare.
I also agree with you There is a hole where a family or individual no longer qualifies for benefits and ends when they begin making enough to be self sufficient without assistance. That hole is even larger for people on welfare who would in reality do take something for nothing.This point is even open for debate. I don't blame them in the sense they feel they are acting in there SELF interests.
That is the very reason Capitalism works. People do act in there self interests. But in capitalism which is A profit AND loss system. You have to be smart enough to create wealth for it too work. Obama doesnt talk much about the more losers in capitalism that risk everything. Its an important lesson. On the bottom of the income scale we have created the incentive to stay there. Especially on the welfare rolls as the least intelligent in society who cant afford children continue to have them at an alarming rate.
SkinnyDude
5:24 pm on Wednesday, August 15, 2012
@ Lyle
I think it is better to end many things that are complete failures that truly do eat up the resources you say you need. We here Obama talk alot about Fraud , waste and abuse. Why does it still exist at alarming rates after 3 1/2 years. Answer: its just a talking point when in fact it needs to be a REALITY!
Ed Willing
12:15 am on Monday, September 17, 2012
I should submit a blog post with the same title and the following body of text:
"Parents."